A Pillar of Salt, A Servant's Son, & Personal Sacrifice

The story of Lot and his wife offers rich material for psychological analysis.

Earlier, as Abram and Lot traveled together, both accumulated considerable wealth and livestock, growing increasingly prosperous. The land, however, could not sustain both of their herds, leading to tension between their herdsmen. Observing the situation, Abram proposed a solution: he and Lot should part ways to avoid further conflict. Given the choice of land, Lot selected the fertile plains near the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah.

This discourse between the two men symbolizes the interplay of order and chaos, with Abram embodying order and Lot symbolizing chaos. While they could not coexist in the same space, their separation illustrates that order and chaos may border one another, each defining the boundaries of the other.

He was aware of the wickedness in these cities, yet the fertile land attracted him, and he believed he could resist the moral decay surrounding him. However, as time passed, he found himself living within the city's walls. This raises an important question: why do we, as humans, sometimes drift towards harmful environments, knowing the risks they pose? Though Lot and his family remained morally upright, they may have been better off avoiding such a place entirely. Here, we witness the early signs of humanity’s “attraction to shadow,” a concept Carl Jung explored. There is also a phenomenon known as l’appel du vide (the "call of the void"), typically describing fleeting, intrusive thoughts. However, in this case, one might argue it manifests as a more persistent attraction to danger, perhaps better termed invocation du vide (the "summoning of the void"). This suggests a deeper psychological drive—an almost irresistible pull towards something we know to be destructive, driven by the potential for a minor benefit or fleeting promise of gain.

When God saw that Lot and his family were the only righteous individuals in the city, He sent angels to lead them away before Sodom and Gomorrah’s destruction. When the angels arrived, the men of the city demanded to “know” them, underscoring the depths of depravity within human nature. While murder is heinous, the act of forcing oneself upon another is perhaps the most profound violation. According to Freud, this behavior reflects humanity’s impulse-driven psyche, an aspect of human nature exploited even in modern marketing strategies designed to appeal to our immediate desires.

The angels instructed Lot’s family to flee without looking back, but Lot’s wife turned around and was transformed into a pillar of salt. Various psychological theories attempt to explain her actions. One plausible interpretation is that she struggled to let go of her past, preferring the familiarity of what she knew, even if it was dangerous, rather than facing the unknown future.

Lot and his daughters eventually fled to a nearby city, but fear of what they had witnessed led them to seek refuge in a cave. Here, we encounter what could be seen as one of the earliest recorded instances of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Although the angels had told Lot that only Sodom and Gomorrah were being destroyed, the trauma and isolation may have caused his daughters to believe they were the last people on earth, leading them to act in desperation to preserve their family line. This response touches upon the human drive to procreate and sustain one’s lineage. While not universal, the desire for children is a deeply ingrained aspect of human nature. Plato argued that this drive is a subconscious pursuit of immortality, achieved through the continuation of one's bloodline. Existentialist philosopher Jean-Paul Sartre, however, viewed it as an expression of the human quest for purpose—an attempt to shape the next generation and leave a legacy that extends beyond oneself.

The story of Hagar and her son Ishmael appears in Genesis 16 and Genesis 21. Hagar, an Egyptian servant to Sarai (later Sarah), became pregnant by Abram (later Abraham) at Sarai’s request, as Sarai was unable to conceive an heir. It’s worth noting that, throughout the Bible, barren women often play roles in bringing forth significant events. While this theme is important, let us focus here on Hagar’s journey.

Hagar’s pregnancy created tension between her and Sarai, as she began to view herself with an elevated status. In response, Sarai treated Hagar harshly, prompting Hagar to flee into the wilderness. This situation reflects a psychological insight into human behavior: when individuals receive an opportunity or experience that elevates them, they may be inclined to become prideful or view themselves as superior. This tendency toward pride or “haughtiness” seems almost instinctual, requiring conscious effort to manage. Hagar’s elevated self-view may also stem from social comparison; by bearing Abram’s child—something Sarai could not do—Hagar perceives herself as superior, creating relational tension. While pride itself is not inherently negative and can foster self-respect and confidence, unchecked pride can lead to friction in relationships, as seen between Hagar and Sarai. In such cases, the psychological concept of self-regulation—the ability to monitor and adjust one’s emotions and behaviors—becomes essential.

In the wilderness, an angel of the Lord appeared to Hagar by a spring, offering her comfort and guidance. The angel assured her that God had heard her suffering and directed her to return to Sarai and Abram. The angel also revealed that her son would be named Ishmael, meaning “God hears,” and promised that Ishmael would grow into a great nation, though his life would be marked by conflict. Reassured by this message, Hagar returned to Abram’s household and gave birth to Ishmael.

Years later, after Sarah miraculously gave birth to Isaac, further tension arose. Concerned about Ishmael’s influence on Isaac’s inheritance, Sarah requested that Abraham send Hagar and Ishmael away. Though distressed, Abraham followed God’s guidance, who reassured him that Ishmael, too, would be blessed and would become the father of a great nation. The angel’s assurance that God had “heard” Hagar’s suffering represents a profound validation, acknowledging her pain and struggle. Psychologically, being heard and validated is essential for emotional well-being, especially for those who feel marginalized or overlooked. This validation affirms an individual’s worth and experiences, allowing them to process difficult emotions and regain a sense of self-worth. The promise that Ishmael would grow into a great nation gave Hagar a sense of purpose and hope for the future. Purpose theory in psychology suggests that when individuals have a meaningful goal, they are more likely to persevere through adversity. Hagar’s encounter with the angel equipped her with a renewed perspective, allowing her to return with a greater sense of resilience. Psychologically, this mirrors the therapeutic process of reframing, in which individuals reinterpret difficult situations to gain new understanding and strength. Armed with the promise of her son’s future, Hagar’s return demonstrates how a shift in perspective can enable individuals to face previous challenges with resilience, fostering healing and growth.

After being sent away, Hagar and Ishmael journeyed into the wilderness, but their provisions soon ran out. Despairing, Hagar placed Ishmael under a bush and distanced herself, unable to bear watching him suffer. At this moment, God heard Ishmael’s cries, and an angel called to Hagar, comforting her and reminding her of God’s promise. God then revealed a well of water, enabling them to survive. Ishmael grew up in the wilderness, becoming a skilled archer and the forefather of a large lineage.

The moment of Ishmael’s cries drawing divine attention highlights the importance of expressing distress as a way of seeking help. In human relationships, communicating one’s needs or pain can serve as a powerful tool for eliciting support from others, fostering resilience through connection. Hagar’s reaction to her dwindling provisions and Ishmael’s suffering illustrates a moment of intense vulnerability, reflecting the emotional overwhelm that can accompany feelings of powerlessness. Psychologically, this act of placing Ishmael under a bush reflects how people may distance themselves from distressing situations as a coping mechanism. Ishmael’s growth into a skilled archer and forefather of a large lineage suggests that strength and independence are often forged through adversity. The wilderness, initially representing a place of despair, becomes a setting for Ishmael’s development into a resilient individual. This transformation illustrates the idea that enduring hardship can be formative, contributing to skill-building, independence, and a resilient identity. Ishmael’s story ultimately embodies the notion that overcoming challenging circumstances can lead to a self-sufficient and meaningful life.

Moving on to a biblical figure that many find intriguing, Isaac, the son of Abraham and Sarah, has a story that unfolds in two significant parts. The first involves a divine promise made to Abraham and Sarah, while the second demonstrates absolute obedience to God on the part of both Abraham and Isaac.

Abraham and Sarah were well beyond what is typically considered childbearing age. Biblically, it is understood that people in that era lived longer lives, and while we cannot scientifically account for the precise condition of their reproductive health, the Bible explicitly states that, despite their old age, God promised them a child. This indicates that they believed themselves to be past the age of conceiving. When God made this promise, Sarah laughed, thinking she was too old to bear a child. Nevertheless, Isaac was born, and his name, which in Hebrew means “laughter,” was given to reflect both Sarah’s initial reaction and the overwhelming joy she experienced at his birth.

Several psychological concepts emerge from this account. One of the most prominent is delayed gratification. Although Abraham and Sarah were advanced in age, they maintained faith in God’s promise. Sarah’s laughter upon hearing the prophecy is not explicitly described as disbelief, and it is reasonable to consider that her laughter may have stemmed from joy rather than skepticism. The Marshmallow Test, a psychological experiment conducted by Walter Mischel, suggests that patience and trust in future rewards lead to better emotional outcomes. Applying this concept here, Abraham and Sarah exhibited trust and patience in God, believing that He would provide for them in due time. Their faith extended beyond children to all aspects of their lives, including sustenance and security.

Additionally, cognitive dissonance may have played a role. If Sarah’s laughter contained an element of disbelief, she may have experienced internal conflict between her faith in God and her perception of her own physical limitations. It is possible that she fully trusted God while simultaneously doubting her own ability to conceive due to her age. This duality reflects a psychological tension often seen in individuals who struggle to reconcile their beliefs with their perceived realities.

Another important psychological aspect is post-traumatic growth. Abraham and Sarah had long endured the sorrow of childlessness. While they did not renounce or distrust God, they still experienced profound sadness. However, the joy Sarah felt upon Isaac’s birth represents significant emotional and spiritual growth. This transition from despair to joy strengthened her relationship with God, exemplifying how individuals can emerge from hardship with renewed faith and resilience.

The role of laughter in this narrative offers insight into the psychological benefits of joy. Sarah’s laughter is depicted in two ways—initial skepticism mixed with joy, and later, pure joy. This aligns with the common notion that laughter is a powerful medicine for the soul. While it does not mean one should laugh at every situation, it suggests that allowing oneself to experience joy, even in difficult times, can be beneficial. Research by Stanford psychologist Nicholas Coles provides substantial evidence that even forcing a smile can trick the brain into feeling happier. If this principle applies to smiling, it likely extends to finding joy in challenging circumstances. Shifting one's mindset from negativity to joy can significantly improve emotional well-being.

The most well-known part of Isaac’s story is the account of his near-sacrifice. God commanded Abraham to take Isaac, his only son, to a mountain and offer him as a burnt sacrifice. Without hesitation, Abraham gathered the necessary items and set out on the journey. The scriptures indicate no delay in his obedience, raising the question: how much faith would it take to immediately follow such an instruction?

As they ascended the mountain, Abraham and Isaac left the servants behind, taking only the wood for the offering. At one point, Isaac, realizing something was missing, asked his father, “Where is the lamb for the burnt offering?” Abraham assured him that God would provide. Upon reaching the designated place, Abraham built the altar, arranged the wood, and bound Isaac. At this moment, it is essential to consider Isaac’s perspective. The Bible does not indicate that he resisted or argued; rather, he appears to have submitted willingly. Given that Isaac was not a small child but likely an adolescent or young adult, he would have understood what was happening. His trust in his father must have been absolute, and that trust likely stemmed from witnessing his father’s unwavering faith in God.

As Abraham raised the knife, God intervened, halting the sacrifice and providing a ram caught in the thicket. This moment reinforced Isaac’s understanding of divine provision. He witnessed firsthand that God is faithful and that his father’s obedience was met with divine intervention.

The cognitive dissonance in this story is profound. Abraham was faced with two seemingly contradictory ideas—God had promised that his descendants would be as numerous as the stars through Isaac, yet now he was commanded to sacrifice him. This is a prime example of the mental conflict people face when encountering beliefs or values that appear to be in direct opposition. Psychologists note that people typically resolve cognitive dissonance by justifying their actions, modifying their beliefs, or deepening their trust in a higher purpose. Abraham resolved this conflict by fully trusting God, believing that there must be a solution beyond his understanding.

Another crucial psychological principle is obedience to authority. Abraham was given an extreme command and followed it without question, much like participants in Milgram’s obedience experiment, who continued administering shocks to a subject simply because an authority figure instructed them to do so. However, the key difference here is that Abraham’s obedience was not blind submission but faith-based trust. He was not acting out of fear but out of a deep conviction that God’s will was just. Isaac, in turn, demonstrated obedience, placing his trust in both his father and God.

The theme of trust is central to this account. Isaac, despite understanding the implications of what was happening, did not resist. This suggests secure attachment, a concept in psychology where children who have consistent and reliable caregivers develop a strong sense of trust. Isaac had grown up witnessing his father’s faithfulness to God, which likely reinforced his own belief in divine provision.

Additionally, the story reflects post-traumatic growth. Abraham had already faced multiple tests in his life—leaving his homeland, waiting for a promised son, and now being asked to sacrifice that son. Each trial deepened his faith. Psychological studies suggest that people who endure severe trials often emerge stronger, having developed resilience and a clearer sense of purpose. Isaac, too, may have experienced such growth. Having come face to face with the reality of his own sacrifice, he witnessed God’s intervention and learned firsthand that God truly provides.

Finally, the symbolic substitution of the ram serves as an important psychological and theological moment. In times of extreme stress or crisis, people often seek ways to transfer their burdens, whether through religious rituals, symbolic gestures, or psychological reframing. The ram became the physical representation of God’s provision, alleviating both Abraham’s moral dilemma and Isaac’s imminent danger. This concept aligns with displacement theory, where individuals redirect emotions or burdens onto something external to relieve psychological strain.

Through these two parts of Isaac’s story, we see powerful psychological themes of delayed gratification, cognitive dissonance, obedience, trust, post-traumatic growth, and symbolic substitution. Abraham and Isaac’s faith was tested in extreme ways, but in the end, their experiences reinforced an undeniable truth—faith in God requires trust even when the path is unclear. As the story of Isaac concludes, his journey leaves a lasting imprint on the understanding of faith and resilience, setting the foundation for what comes next in the broader biblical narrative.